I felt bad for a friend who was dismissed without a valid reason. I felt that she is a capable lady, but it is quite unfortunate that she has a sour and incapable boss. Management of bosses is an important skill, but not easy. Sometimes, it is not worth the effort at all. Ultimately, bosses are also paid to work and defend their own interests. Thus, before we think we want to confide in our bosses (as if we trust them), do think again!
I think, the termination of the above friend's job is unfortunate. Which is worse? Having a boss that you cannot trust, or leaving the job without a job? In this friend's case, I suppose the loss is being asked to leave, which has a "face" issue. Otherwise, she has nothing to lose.
Essentially, the issue here is "pride". Is she really unfortunate? If we take away the "pride" issue, then the appropriate word should just be "unlucky". After all, it may still be a fortunate thing not to work under someone you cannot trust.
To this good friend of mine, move ahead, put the past behind you, take a rest, and you will realise that this is just another tiny episode of your life. It may seems easy for one to say so, I know, but then, that's the lesson of "recovery" and "acceptance".
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