Sunday, May 25, 2008

Achievements does not equate to no problems

I have seen friends around me, achieving success in their lifes, be it making it big in their career or leading an improved lifestyle. For me, I felt that I have made some success too, in my career and in my lifestyle. Like me, and the rest, we still face with problems, and occasional stress.

Problem is a problem, when you think that it is a problem. Similarly, stress is still stress, when you feel stressful. So it is all up in the mind, what we perceive. At times with problems and stress, perhaps, we should still maintain a positive attitude and face it, rather than escaping it, unless there is no choice, or if it is meaningful to continue. Having said that to face it, it does not mean, that we have to worry about it or worst still, magnify the problem.

So having the right state of mind with a positive attitude is important. Recently, I also do not like to meet people who are negative or tends to aggravate their issues. If things are over, or if things are still uncertain, unless there is a fruitful discussion, otherwise, it is better not to think about it or talk about it. When things come, let them come bah :) When it is on a weekend, why talk about things that happen in the weekday :)

So when we all thought that we have achieve somethings in our life, it does not mean that we have no problems, but certainly, it also does not imply that we have to magnifying such issues or keep talking about them. Let it be, let it be, let it be..... time is the best solution.

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